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Monthly Archives: January 2013

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Response to Dan Slater’s “A Million First Dates”

When I think about commitment and why some relationships go the way of the dodo, the first place I consider laying blame has never been the Internet. Vast immaturity on the part of my partner? Sure. Abuse? Absolutely. But the existence of online dating? Um, no. That very thought, as fleshed out and discussed by […]

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Day in DC

After waking up earlier than birdsongs, Megs and I drove into, got lost within, and finally found a place to park in Washington, D.C. We had about six hours to tootle around and see the nation’s capitol before our D.C. date  and in true Megan and me fashion, tootle we did not: whirly-derby race is […]

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The X Factor in Washington DC

I’m back! It’s me! Alicia! And I can think straight! On with the dates! (The more !!! the merrier, apparently!!!) Looks aren’t everything. When it comes to being attracted to men, I look for what’s right about them rather than what is “wrong” (to be fair, this is how I seem to approach a lot […]

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Graciously Saying “No More Dates, Thanks!”

Folks, Alicia still is sort of out of intelligent writing commission today. So, enjoy a piece she wrote for another site about how to kindly let someone down.  One of my personal flaws is not knowing when I want to stop dating someone. Sign one should probably be that I don’t return their phone calls in a […]

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Getting Conversational With Your S.O.*

Folks, Alicia still is sort of out of intelligent writing commission today. So, enjoy a piece she wrote for another site about how to talk to a significant other when you want to have a more serious conversation.  *(Or the person/s you’re in a datingship with these days.) Opening your mouth to eat confetti cake: easy. Opening […]

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Recess

Due to medical brew-ha-ha, Alicia isn’t able to post today. But tomorrow. Oh, tomorrow. Just you wait. Unless of course she learns that she cannot write while on painkillers. In which case, you’ll just have to wait some more. However, for today, you’re going to get to OOOOH and AAAAH over three of Alicia’s favorite […]

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Drunk High School History Teachers, Dr. Paul, and the Topic of Dating: Part Two

Yesterday I meandered away from the road trip and the story of fifty first dates to talk dating on a grander scheme. Going to wind that up now. Like I said before…In Maryland, it was inebriated educators. Awhile back, I remember feeling a bit unnerved by an uncategorizable number of people who wanted to know […]

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Drunk High School History Teachers, Dr. Paul, and the Topic of Dating: Part One

In Maryland, it was inebriated educators. Awhile back, I remember feeling a bit unnerved by an uncategorizable number of people who wanted to know about what a date meant. And heck, as of this week my friend Dr. Paul had his own questions about the “legitimacy” of dates during 50/50. So, to quote my Minnesota […]

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Maryland

Man, I felt bad for the chap who had to follow Delaware in my datingverse. Let’s just say that after that under-pleasant experience, I wasn’t my usual gung ho self for another first date. The very next day. Thank gosh for Megan, who told me to buck up, open my mind, remember why we were […]

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Writers, Artists, and Musicians Take Note: It Only Takes a Village (and Kickstarter) to Transform Visions into Reality

Super excited to be part of Linda Thorlakson’s artist interview series. In the words of Jen Friel, hit it Linda!

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